Thread / 'I'll go first' post
Post where you make a candid, specific disclosure and invite others to match it. Builds community and earns credibility simultaneously. Best for normalising a topic most people in your industry don't discuss publicly: revenue numbers, client churn, failed deals, pricing mistakes.
When to use this template
When you want to normalise a difficult topic in your industry and build community around it. The topic must be something your ICP actually experiences but never discusses publicly. Your disclosure sets the permission level - the more specific and real your disclosure, the more specific and real the responses.
The template
Nobody in {your_industry_or_niche} talks about {taboo_or_candid_topic}.
I'll go first.
{your_own_honest_specific_answer_with_a_real_number_or_detail}.
{what_you_did_about_it_and_what_changed}.
Your turn. {specific_question_that_invites_the_same_level_of_disclosure}.
I'll compile the responses.Variables
- {taboo_or_candid_topic}
- Something real people in your industry never say publicly. Churn rates, deal sizes, failed pitches, client mistakes, revenue dips, pricing failures. The more specific the topic, the stronger the community signal.
- {your_own_honest_specific_answer}
- Go first with genuine candor and real numbers. Vague admissions ('I've had some tough months') don't give others permission to be honest. Specific disclosures ('Our worst month: 8.4% monthly churn, three enterprise clients in the same week, revenue dropped €19K overnight') do.
- {what_you_did_about_it}
- Include the resolution. A pure failure story invites sympathy comments. A failure-to-fix arc invites peer responses - people who've been there and want to share what they did.
- {specific_question}
- Invite the same level of specificity you modeled. 'What's your churn story - and what fixed it?' is specific. 'What's your experience been?' is not.
Worked example
Nobody in B2B SaaS talks about their actual monthly churn rate. I'll go first. Our worst month: 8.4% monthly churn. October 2023. Three enterprise clients left in the same week. Revenue dropped €19K overnight. We fired two products, went all-in on one use case, rebuilt the onboarding from scratch. Six months later: 1.1% monthly churn. Not perfect, but survivable and trending right. Your turn. What's your churn story - and what was the one thing that actually turned it around? I'll compile the responses into a post next week.
How to use it
- 1
Go first with numbers, not adjectives
Your disclosure sets the permission level for everyone who follows. 'Our worst month: 8.4% monthly churn, €19K revenue drop overnight' gives people explicit permission to be specific. 'I've had some tough months' gives them permission to be vague.
- 2
Include both the failure and the fix
A pure failure story generates sympathy comments. A failure + fix arc generates peer responses from people who've been there. The resolution is what makes the disclosure feel like a learning, not just an admission.
- 3
Set a specific deadline for the compilation
'I'll compile responses next week' increases participation and commits you to a valuable follow-up post. The compilation post - 'I asked about churn. Here's what 23 founders said' - typically reaches 2–3× the audience of the original.
- 4
DM the best commenters before featuring them
Ask permission before featuring someone's specific numbers or situation in the compilation post. Most people will say yes - it's exposure for them. Asking first builds goodwill and turns commenters into advocates.
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